How is it racist if you like certain body types that are more common in a certain ethnicity? How is it racist to like big hips, small hips, big boobs, small boobs, tanner skin, fairer skin, etc? If I like the color of darker skin is a racist for me to seek out a black partner? I understand the fact that our media pushes white as being more attractive (never quite understood that but what if that is what people find attractive? My girlfriend likes blonde hair, is it racist for her to seek out a white partner?