Demanding that allies be included into the LGBTQIA label is doing just that. And, YES. There are times when I am more than happy to talk to allies and help them understand. There are other times when I dont need to feel obligated to play professor to a bunch of straight people, and just want to BE around other people who already get it. I've had more than a few BAD experiences with crap allies, and I dont always want to deal with it.